Dear Elizabeth, ...

About married sex:  I met Sarah when she was thirty-five, but just a few weeks shy of thirty-six.  Our first child, Daniel, was born a couple of weeks after Sarah turned thirty-seven--and I, God forbid!, was forty-three.  Our second/final child, another son, Gabriel, was born twenty-five months later, a month and a half after Sarah turned thirty-nine--and I, again God forbid!, was forty-five.  Unlike some metaphysically- and morally-confident MOJ posters, who am I to judge?  But for Sarah and me--my advanced years to the contrary notwithstanding--married sex was certainly the way to go!